Life is an on-going learning process. For the crude or vulgar this may not be so. After a set of mundane targets; one is immersed in a form of life which keeps one firmly entangled in a way…nay a certain way of being based or dare one add debased way of being.
The choice to live at the crude level in adopting a lifestyle which does not add to one’s
being but merely takes away need be questioned and called to scrutiny in an act of being there. Not to do so implies that one succumbs easily to whimsical modes of being.
That crude level may be defined where one chooses to deliberately seek a way of being which one moves towards in spite of our scholarship in other areas of life where one falls prey to or give in to vulgar or crude desires.
Whilst one may never prescribe a way of being it is incumbent to awaken and always question as to why there is a choice which often plunges one to a brutal level.
The naive always feel that one is in control: of course one is not simply because we are knowingly espousing a way of being which in many ways may jeopardise our whole effort at reaching out.
The extreme is in adopting of vile forms as a way to experience a certain and quick way of seeking those at seeking ultimate pleasures. The temptation is always there as often one comes crashing down and our whole foundation is perturbed.
To place oneself in situations that may cause or bring about problems onto oneself and or fails to add learning experience is not the way of the prudent or diligence.
The whole process of life is about wising up and always put to question on matters as to why does one want do certain things as opposed to others.
Can the other add to my being and or always a drain on the self? The rational mind needs be vigilant and or aware less one becomes a victim of one’s own doing. Life is a process of being responsible at all times. Where one fails to justify one’s being against any form of choice or that ” my choice” fails to add value onto my lifestyle then one has to question one’s choices.
It is my life. It is my choice may come the answer. What I do is of no concern to anyone. That is the ultimate rebellion to which no one has an answer but our comrade may well have to pause and look within before seeking a firm resolute way of moving and or adopting a particular lifestyle.
The crude lifestyle only become a burden to one’s being. It debases life. Balance is affected and the norm is channelled towards putting desires at the forefront …a kind of a mundane ones which never quite may come to terms with a reflective style of living.
In my reflective state of being; I call a halt to my mundane being and or pause. In so doing ‘I’ question myself. Why am I engaged in such and such a lifestyle? How will that add to my being! Or verily takes away from my foundation. What value will it add? Would there be any advantage to use a coaching related term or will it simply be a hindrance?
To be sure it is not in the style of the blogger to give or provide the other with a fait accompli as indeed each one needs to take full responsibility for one’s actions.
In choosing a to adopt a way life which fails to bring respect and or cause undue stress to any others of others or for that matter self torture only ‘I ‘ become responsible. To perceive that one may have done otherwise rather than a path of destruction in spite of oneself as if drawn in a pool of debased form is indeed the way of one who pauses and not fall prey to reactionary modes.
Often though in relationship one fails to see how any of such activities may cause distress to the other with whom we are close to. By deliberately adopting a particular lifestyle one moves away at a stroke from a set of values. Sometimes if those values cause disturbance or is a hindrance to one’s being to be sure one ought to question any non-authentic forms, However if the foundation of such values are based on not causing distress or violence then it is incumbent on the questioner to take a deep breath step aside and or stop pause and reflect. For who is to tell in that mode of reflection may yet lies an answer to our search for being.
The question is surely if one wishes to adopt or seek a lifestyle why not consider those that may always add instead of substract. In this vein should I consider others and or their feelings? Why? Why not?
And finally comrade the choice is yours!