One always seeks to control things about us: It the nature of humans when living in non separateness of mode where one gives the self authority to do so. In this vein, the subject becomes a rash being adopting all the norms of materialistic tendencies and seek to promote a futile way of being at perpetually denigrating others. In this process there is no love lost in trying to recollect aspects of life of forging ahead based on some ways which seeks to upheld oneself whilst putting others down. All that matters is for the ego to have a partial view of living where the latter airs superior status whilst relegating others. The scheme is only successful partially in shouting others which makes the brute feels happy and content. Others are viewed in a paranoia way. A defence system is built about the self as if one is over and beyond all others. Humility is never in the vocabulary of one who vulgarises everything.
As it is, taking this further, all else is objectified and or materialised as if life is all about that aspect of the crude and vile. Or the vile, violent and the brute is in control, with a clear tendency to be arrogant and cause distress with every interaction. What the latter knows not is that there is another realm in this condemned from of the absurd where hope lies not in nastiness or imposing but verily at being able to perceive the beauty in that realm of transcendence. But for the ruffian all is about itself and its survival at all cost where some may even say that if one is to walk over the bodies of others, so be it. There is no vision of perceiving life alongside or with others.
Others simply do not matter: Only the crude self does or it is all about negativism proper. In its quest for superiority, the neophyte nurture a view of materialising all aspects of life even the distorted view of his transcendence unlike his counterpart which aims to sensibalise all forms of materialism to the point of seeing beauty and calm about everywhere unlike the subject which merely seeks to trivialise others towards aiming his/her own goal of inbuilt friction where no other is worthy of being-ness but itself. Or let us say, a question of how the subject perceives the world becomes the measure of being. A total lack of disrespect or even acknowledgement of any other. Others are merely stepping ladders, as they are objectified with only one subject, the wretched who wants and aims for all control. All is this swept aside, akin to how a dictator may move about and along.
After creating so much frictions about the pride ego which is all about itself and no other also promote arrogance from which conceit develops as if no one or thing matters but that being which fractionalised even all things as it encounters again keeping itself on top through either harshness, hate and sometimes violence. For such a being the other is condemned to be a servitor. It is seen as a lack which only the controller may affix but only on the latter’s term to the negligence of the subject. Acts of self control is non-existent in the one who seeks to be domineering whilst simplicity and or freedom from anger to be sure is a far cry in the scheme of the rogue who tends to see its ways as being the only one to adopt and follow. In effect, there is no concern about any other. Life is simply seen as an arena to impose with all lose measured in gains and loses. Our comrade herewith only has his/her interests to be upheld.
Tranquility or calmness and peace is foreign in such an equation. Rather there is a tendency keep faultfinding in others about them. Again, there may never be compassion for living entities as the latter are seen as objects and to some extent literally or how else may one view the cruel abattoirs about and around. Lesser beings are bred for the sake of those who adopt a pure superior tendency. In its quest for even higher status the non savoury cares little for any one, hence missing the aspect of gentleness in its ways of being. To be sure, there is no modesty of approach or humbleness but instead plain wretchedness in operation.
What the perpetrator fails to see is its lack of warmth in reaching out and abide in comradeship which at least acknowledge the other. That is missing in the vocabulary of the one who uses anger and hate as a strategy to relate to the world order. Likewise, gentleness or mercy is missing as would be freedom from envy, all based on trying to impose and be what one is not based from an attitude of materialistic perspective of life. The process of life is measured on an equally crude business mode: it is all about outdoing of the other. The better I get at this through any form of interaction the higher one status of life, one may achieve. It is all about amassing honours in the world as one believes and so the wretched happily leads a spurious life believing it to be the way of being.
No heed is taken of real and actual aspects which helps foster a togetherness. The crude merely sees its forlorn way as a paradigm of honour to be persevered with as it brings success and greatness in his mode of being. No need to take heed of the teachings of the sages but a mere fanatical approach mere claiming to be a follower suffice in their way of thinking. With this being so, further confusions are thrown about as others looking upon the leaders merely see no logic in following a lead of others who are a mere embodied contradictions taking one away from all hope of authenticity where the deplorable are seen to be hailed except in others also simply abiding and adopting a similar tone of the vulgar and superficial.
To objectify the other whilst hailing one’s subjectivity is the art of the crude where there is no interpersonal relationship, or if there is it is all about seeing the subject as of paramount importance whilst any other denigrated to a debased form of servitude and or forcibly made to curb either through strategies of anger, hatred and other violence.
The question of pause, stop and reflect is never there. Unlike Socrates, the arrogant ‘knows’ everything around, about everything in spite of always justifying its own contradictions or way of being often taken shelter of even some other higher principle…. which again further creates confusions. To be sure, a sad way to be!