The other is never an object…..

Most of us tends to know what to do and what not to do at least those that follow a bona fide tradition or a culture which does not either denigrate or keep thinking that they are way above others and others need to be subservient and that only they or that culture of which they are part of has a reason to be. Sure in the process there is not even acknowledgement. In this way, they or others may not be quite aware as they are entangled in desires of a selfish kind which tends to dominate their whole being for which they lead often a way of life which leaves one baffled as there may be ignorance of the other and others as for them it is a just a question of survival even at the cost of cheating others and or being rude with arrogance appearing freely whilst envy is already part of the equation which makes our comrade reside in a world where trampling on the other is the norm. The strategy used by such an adherent is that others matters little and they are objectified and seen as lesser being and or they may be duped into their limited ways of being.
Adopting such a norm by the superficial is there and about us wholly as after all one reacts as per what is perceived usually and posit that insidious experience of the mundane into the non temporal. By so doing, one is no more than our non transcendental friend who belittles any other which brings one to the point of our discussion. To be sure, it is not a question of knowing what to do or not to do. That in-itself is insufficient. One has to be alert of others in that the latter are sentient beings and such one is warned to be respectful to one and all regardless and unconditionally. It is incumbent that one develops strategies whereby the subject does not to fall prey to the norm or ways as adopted by the vulgar. One who is reflective may not be a reactionary but rather seek those proactive ways of being which is part of being reflective as there is a need to see that any other is a living warmth.
Arrogance unfortunately tends to take its toll in that one easily becomes a victim as the subject feels that one is abundance of knowledge based on a mere transformation of an attire or sudden adaption of a way of being. Whilst in the rare souls that may be case, when the latter are not reactive but proactive where the subject takes note of the other fully in all humility with reference that any other verily indeed regardless of species even is an equal as a kind of non material communism. But the average are trapped in a false ego trip regardless of so called knowledge where what is missing in the equation is the how which to be sure misses the point of seeing the other as a subject. Wisdom dictates that the other is not a mere empty barrel to be drilled/ filled regardless of whatever the input maybe. It is all a question of being conscious not verbally and or intellectually but wholly and fully. … which implies in the least calling at the outset to have respect for the other.
The vulgar or the rude cares little for the other in truth but readily carries on in a ego trip whereby what matters really is not that living warmth or comrade other reside as per a parroted self which lives in imitation of some other or what an observer may notice is only aspects of knowledge without comprehension being thrown about and with no real application all arrives without thought which deny the other respectability. Or to put it again plainly one lacks the apprehension or wisdom to make a breakthrough and or reaching out to others.
Any other equally is a subject who deserves attention and care just as oneself, thereby it is always a question of reaching out rather than belittling the other. To do the latter, however one may be knowledgeable will show in lack of respect and where there is no respect arrogance surfaces and when this is so the subject feels that one knows it all. That is the problem of the insensitivity or a failure to acknowledge that one is never better than any other. Or that one is always the same as any other. The problem with materialism is that the subject is duped upon seeing the other as a lesser being and or that one is of a different category whether one knows some thing, as if by that knowledge or little expertise that one views the other as being different and unfortunately even in transcendental quarters there is also a hierarchy based on some theoretical knowledge without applicability or a lack in being whereas the call as far as one knows is that each and everyone has that same lack as one is always called upon to see the other with equal vision. Unfortunately, lesson like these are bypassed as one easily succumbed to the ways of the world which dictates that the not me is somehow a threat or if not a threat certainly someone to be abused and or put down as life as it unfolds in the material arena is all about seeking to be that or above the other where respect and humility are mere categories.
The process therefore becomes one attempt to dominate the other, a domination which somehow the vulgar feels is the forward which is based in spite of its intention to be no more than trampling on the other where the latter is subjected to denigration where respect and warmth extended does not exist. It is a world of contradiction which learnt from the mundane and superimposed on the non material. That this creates friction is more than obvious as our comrade rarely may develop a relationship proper with anyone and all surroundings are a constant threat which often leads one towards withdrawal. In truth all resides on the failure of the subject to acknowledge that any other is never an object to be rued upon but rather seen as similar to the self that one is and or verily not necessary belonging to the humanoid specie but even any other being. Is this possible. That indeed is the challenge!