One who claims expertise within the conditioned world verily walk about and around claiming that the subject knows it all and that life should be so fashioned as per their whims of oneself. In that state, they pronounce on any and every other caring little that what they have in front of them is a similar being with equally as powerful but the former may still choose to advocate the principle of authority in that they are the one who know and the rest needs to be subservient.
Trying to control each and everything thing is nothing new. Society at large has its own rules and regulations and within each society there are also opponents who have an equally different perspective on life and or to be. At the personal level and or within a nuclear family to be precise, often there are frictions and bickering so in that one lives within contradiction often marred with anger and hatred. And so the world goes by both at the personal and impersonal level.
Conditioned life is just an arena where one freely seems to be given a licence to pour scorn on any and everything and so lots of verbiage are regurgitated based in a spurious way. That one knows . That one pronounce freely and throw garbages figuratively speaking where aiming to belittle or downgrade the other. As if there is quite a clear cut way of being in that the proponent is the only one who knows. The art of living is as per a way and being the only way. The vulgar may never pause and check one’s way of being. It is a clear question that the subject has the feeling that one is the measure of being in that whatever is said and thought of needs be the way forward whereas keep looking at any other as being the source and cause of every malaise about whilst one knows. That arrogance of the self coupled with pride and harshness is sufficient to make others realise in spite of their so called care, there is a lot of lack of being which the subject never apprehends due to the conceit aspect in their way of being. As theirs is always about perpetual downgrading of the other .
Mundane living is the arena of negativism where one is prized over and above any other and the latter becomes the subject of one’s lack in being but the subject always feels that oneself is always right and kind of a circle of ongoing drama as each and very one may have such claim but one who adopts the path of adjusting and creating disharmony merely feels that they wish to control everything. At no time the subject will stop and pause reflecting what if the other is to state similar things towards one. What may be the reaction? In society at large there we have parties with diverging views and seeking control and it is a question of seeking to convince others about.
The appreciation that there need be agreement to disagree at the base is never quite apprehended with the subject seeking to keep control amid denigration of the other even to the point of anger resulting in violence verbal or otherwise where there is trend at belittling of the other as of by so doing success may be achieve by the petty self.
At the personal level if there is no reaching out to the other one may fall in the trap of remaining a lone figure and should one be prepared to carry on as sooner or later even within close relationships such extreme forms of disagreements may lead to people calling time and moving on. And for sanity’s sake that is how one falls out with others and by so doing what was once an object of love transit as quickly into that of its opposite or hatred. With hatred emerging, one falls into the trap of the insane and duplicity forms of existence is observed.
To be sure, each and every single entity has been given the opportunity to live and lead an existence where they may grow as the choose fit to be and not live within the shades of any other who may proclaim that they know it all. That one has the right to be and seek a lifestyle unperturbed from any form hindrance. One needs to respect that the other is as free as oneself and that must be at the forefront of respect. The point about living within the mundane is to try and develop humanness at an unparalleled peak. Or one falls astray in the realm of the superficial.
That one chooses the realm of an authentic transcendental way is no surprise as there is always a lack in material living. The latter merely proposes a way based on the crude senses seeking ultimate pleasure based on the me, me and me and all life is such intentioned towards maximisation of a pleasures to the denial of its opposite. Elsewhere, we have pointed out that may not be since problems are inherent. Happiness within the realm of the mundane is merely temporary. They are her and all our adjustments will somehow be frustrated at the base. That is verily the problem of our comrade who feels that they should try and be the measure of everything. The dialectics are turned upside down in the way of the corrupted self. Rather than taking one’s strength from acknowledging from life, the subject tries dictating onto it seeking to impose.
Let’s be clear:It is always a question of exposing and not imposing. With the latter one transit into the realm of the superficial with its bickering, anger, envy, pride, arrogance, conceit, hatred and never quite appreciating oneself let alone any other as one is govern by the whims of the reactionary way. All is simply jettisoned into a way where the forces of negative are clearly encircling the subject except that one does not acknowledge one’s lack or ignorance. Rather there is a pretence that one is in full knowledge and that life should be so so fashioned as per the whims of the crude self. A sad state to be except due to arrogance and ignorance one fails to perceive one’s own lack of being which only those rare few may truly endeavour to address.
The question emerging herewith what are our lack in terms of qualities which are positive and bring togetherness? How may one know and so leave that road to despair and destruction and away from negativism? Is this possible? How may one find out? Who knows?